Book 3 - Cougar

Violet Ivy’s new book ‘Cougar’

Due for release January 2014

What exactly is a Cougar? Or a cub for that matter? In this book I interview both to reveal their thoughts on this subject and their lifestyles.

Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the last twenty years you will know what a Cougar is. The short answer is an older woman who is attracted to, and has intimate relations with, much younger men, the cubs. The actual age differences involved are a bit blurred depending on who you speak to.

It’s been said that Cougars ‘prey’ on men young enough to be their sons. I can tell you from personal experience there are times when I wish my outfit came with a large fly swat accessory to keep these cubs at a distance. It seems almost impossible to go out for a drink in a bar without some twenty three year old trying to pick me or one of my friends up.

Is it true that Cougars are not interested in a relationship but simply a sexual conquest? Some Cougars certainly enjoy the fact they are physically appealing to men who are considered to be in the prime of their virility, but it is a case by case scenario. Each Cougar, and cub for that matter, has a different agenda.

Possibly the first and most famous introduction to this phenomenon in modern history was the groundbreaking film The Graduate. It depicts a middle-aged woman, Mrs. Robinson, (Ann Bancroft), who seduces a recent college graduate many years her junior, Benjamin Braddock, (Dustin Hoffman).

Research shows that relationships where the female is older are on the rise. Real-life Cougar relationships include Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubry, Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer, Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon and  Barbara Hershey and Naveen Andrews.

Cougared.com and dateacougar.com are a couple of the many dating sites specifically set up for this type of couple and they claim to have thousands of members.

Certainly different cultures vary on their views of relationships with age disparities. How seriously these couples are taken, how much of an age difference is acceptable, ethics and laws. Age of consent for example. In our culture a wealthy guy in his sixties can easily attract a girl in her twenties. The mature guy is considered enviable, rich and powerful. The younger woman a gold digger. A mature woman in the same scenario is just seen as a sad, aged cradle-snatcher. Trying to recapture her youth and so forth. The younger man is rarely condemned. Does it seem to anyone else that it’s the female who is judged negatively in both of these situations?

Armed with my Dictaphone I recorded these interviews. Read, enjoy, be educated, shocked, surprised. These are real life people who not only do not see anything wrong with the age difference but actively seek it out. And not one of them seemed unhappy about their preferences.

Due for release January 2014


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What readers are saying about ‘Cougar’

‘I’m so glad I’m not the only one. It was great to hear others tell their secret stories. Violet picks their brains really well without appearing offensive or sleazy.’…Barbra L, Newcastle, Australia

‘Very insightful. A compelling read. Hell I couldn’t put it down. Do yourself a favour.’…Gary W, Wellington, New Zealand

‘I had pigeonholed my views without even knowing it. Thank you for enlightening me Violet.’…George P, San Diego, USA

‘The more we learn about each other the more the boundaries dissolve. Fascinating reading.’…George A, Perth, Scotland

‘Thought provoking. I’m still not sure it’s acceptable though. It seems a bit dirty.’…Abby D, Montreal, Canada

‘What twisted minds these people have got. It’s not normal.’…Debra H, Lorne, Australia

 

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